I was raised in a family with a rich father and a very libertarian mother, meaning that I never had to do anything. I always had aspirations, but could not do it because I didn’t have to. I got married in ‘98 to a wonderful girl, but I soon saw that I need to hide my lack of discipline and incompetence. To make a long story short after 7 years of marriage I got 5 children and my marriage life started to go down the hill . last year I started going to Psychotherapy   and a few months ago my wife started going herself . I feel the heat of going to work , but I never felt able to do so, because I felt incompetent. I realize that I really need to start moving. I am working already for a while to have an organization to help elderly people with medical supplies, gadgets and so on and from that experience I assume will have more experience and confident to open my own for profit company. I am also working on a logo business on the web.

I ask you to please help me in those areas.

I want by March, 1, 2008
To have greater discipline
My organization should be up and running
My Logo website should have been created
Have worked on at least one aspect of marital relationship, and should be locked in a little.

I have a list of things that I need to do on a daily basis. I will update if I did most of those things. This will be our measurement of my discipline.
One of those things will be to work at least 1/2 hour daily on my org., except on Saturdays. I will update how much 1/2 hours I did daily.
I will update every week where I am up with the logo site.
Every week I will tell you on what aspect of marital relationship I am working on, and will tell you how I am doing.

Please help me, help myself, and then I will finally be on the road to success and happiness .

Welcome, Alan! I am here to help, and feel free to send me a PM if you need anything.

OK, I have a few questions for you.
Do you love your wife?
Does she know?
How?
If you don’t have a regular 9 to 5 job, what do you do all day? (are you a stay at home dad?)
Why not spend 1/2 an hour a day doing something to show your wife you care for her? (i.e. dishes, supper, taking the kids out so she has some quiet time)
--On that last one, you’d be amazed at the response she’ll give you. If there’s something she’s always asked you to do, that’s your ticket.

I promise to help in any way I can. You’ve come to the right place!

Bree

I don’t have a job yet, I never wanted to work for someone because I was scared that I am terribly incompetent. I am working on a medical supply business. I do help my wife daily by cleaning away the toys and getting my children to sleep and with bathing the children on every second night.

What kind of work do you think you’d be interested in? If your medical supply company doesn’t work out, that is. And what’s your education level? I get the impression that you don’t have the best self esteem, am I right?

Does your wife work? And kudos on helping around the house and with the kids. It means a lot to us mom/wives.

Bree